I wanted a lot of things, but at the bottom of my desire, was the desire to be loved. That was my identity. In the love of others I found my worth. I was broken when my husband left me. But Christ saved me from my self-love. I have worth because Christ is worthy. His sacrifice brings me into the love of the Father, and this love is so much deeper than the love I was looking for through other people.
Now my identity is in Christ.